Life is for loving, sharing, caring, smiling, forgiving, laughing, hugging, helping, dancing, wondering, healing, singing and even more caring. Though, I was told that sometimes we care too much and that would make our lives up side down, so don't care too much... What a controversy! If we omit "caring" from the list, life wouldn't be as it has to be, would it...?
How are we supposed not to care too much? How are we people supposed to control those feelings which are iron like.
The act of caring is powerful, a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment and much more... All those things have the potentiel to turn a life around.
After all, aren't we Human? What makes us who we are, what makes us different from others is that God blessed us with the gift of "having feelings", in other words the gift of caring. Therefore, I wouldn't find an answer for my friend who asked me about the reason why I care that much. I guess it's just how I am, how most people are. I don't care that much very easily, I have many acquaintances, and friendship relationships in which I just care for my friends, but they aren't all special. So, I don't care for others easily, but when I care, I care... much, genuinely. I don't think it's a defect in a soul to care too much, is it...?
I think that some poeple avoid caring very much in order not to get hurt or not to be broken in someway, someday...because they know they'll find it hard to bring the broken peaces back together...
Others on the other hand, who doesn't care at all, they actually cared once but have been deeply hurt; that's why they let go on caring. They got tired of being kicked when they were already down. They got tired of being used, they got tired of doubts, got tired of fucking sleepless nights, got tired of (...) To make a long list short, they got tired of taking crap they don't deserve.
At last, I won't say don't care nor don't care too much, I will say live your life they way it has to be, the way you want it, they way your heart wants it to be whether with caring much or less. No matter what, try to remain happy, just try because I know that it won't be as easy as words.
How are we supposed not to care too much? How are we people supposed to control those feelings which are iron like.
The act of caring is powerful, a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment and much more... All those things have the potentiel to turn a life around.
After all, aren't we Human? What makes us who we are, what makes us different from others is that God blessed us with the gift of "having feelings", in other words the gift of caring. Therefore, I wouldn't find an answer for my friend who asked me about the reason why I care that much. I guess it's just how I am, how most people are. I don't care that much very easily, I have many acquaintances, and friendship relationships in which I just care for my friends, but they aren't all special. So, I don't care for others easily, but when I care, I care... much, genuinely. I don't think it's a defect in a soul to care too much, is it...?
I think that some poeple avoid caring very much in order not to get hurt or not to be broken in someway, someday...because they know they'll find it hard to bring the broken peaces back together...
Others on the other hand, who doesn't care at all, they actually cared once but have been deeply hurt; that's why they let go on caring. They got tired of being kicked when they were already down. They got tired of being used, they got tired of doubts, got tired of fucking sleepless nights, got tired of (...) To make a long list short, they got tired of taking crap they don't deserve.
At last, I won't say don't care nor don't care too much, I will say live your life they way it has to be, the way you want it, they way your heart wants it to be whether with caring much or less. No matter what, try to remain happy, just try because I know that it won't be as easy as words.
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